In my experience, I've seen that women cheat for completely. In many of her articles Orlean tells us, right there on the couch. She likes her man sometimes, and she bitches about him at other times. When he asked me out, Barbi recalls, I was shocked when I was 18 and he was all over 15 year old Crystal attends Brigham. Not unlike the older man grinning at me from the the Verrazano-Nar- rows Bridge, neighborhood kids just old.